At Heart to Heart, we often talk about the importance of making an informed decision. Many of our clients who find themselves facing an unexpected pregnancy either aren't aware of their options, or don't feel like they have any choice in their situation but to abort their pregnancy. An unexpected pregnancy can be a scary and confusing situation! Knowing all of your options, and the long-term effects of each of your options, can help you make an informed decision. Talking through these options with one of our trained nurses can help provide you with honest, objective, and up-to-date information about pregnancy, adoption, and abortion. Plus, all of our services are offered at no charge to you, and with the full assurance of complete confidentiality.
If you are considering an abortion, have you exercised your right to make an informed decision? The questions below can help you step back, take a breath, and gather all the information you need to make a decision based on facts, not fear.
1. Am I pregnant?
While a positive pregnancy test can indicate the presence of the pregnancy hormone in urine, it does not necessarily indicate a viable pregnancy. An ultrasound and a consultation with one of our nurses can give a much more accurate picture into your situation. Approximately 1 in 5 first trimester pregnancies result in miscarriage. An abortion can be be an expensive and dangerous procedure, and can be avoided if the ultrasound reveals that it is not necessary.
2. Do I understand the potential risks?
No matter how 'routine' abortion clinics claim their procedures to be, all medical procedures carry risk of complications. You have the legal right to give fully informed consent, meaning you have the legal right to all of the information available. Specifically, you can request information about the following:
3. Have I considered all of my options?
While an abortion might seem like your only option, there are several alternatives available to you. Some women who had initially considered abortion have found joy and delight in parenting their child. Others who don't feel ready to be parents have been able to put together an adoption plan and bless another family with their baby. You do have options, and you won't regret informing yourself!
4. Do I know what to do if I change my mind?
Even if you have an appointment already scheduled at an abortion clinic, you have the right to change your mind at any point before the procedure starts. Some women have even gotten up off of the examination table and left! Others have changed their minds after taking the first set of pills before the medical abortion. An abortion is your decision and you have the freedom and the right to take your time in making that decision, and the right to change your mind if you so choose. Don't let anyone pressure you into staying with a decision you're not comfortable making.
5. Do I know how the abortion clinic handles complications during the procedure?
Does the abortion doctor have admitting privileges to a nearby hospital in the event that you have an emergency? What is the clinic's plan for emergency care or follow up care in the event of an emergency during or after the procedure? You have a right to know!
6. Do I know my rights as a minor?
Even as a minor, you have certain legal rights that cannot be violated. You cannot be forced to have an abortion, not even by your parents. If you are being pressured to have an abortion that you don't want, please immediately contact the police, your local pregnancy care center, or call this toll-free number: 210-614-7157.
7. Have I been tested for sexually transmitted infections (STIs)?
Any surgical procedure, including an abortion, can be complicated by infection. Have you been tested for a sexually transmitted infection (STI)? Many STIs do not have obvious symptoms, so you may have an STI and not know it. These infections can often cause serious damage to your pelvic organs, and lead to long-term problems such as infertility and ectopic pregnancy. While Heart to Heart does not offer STI testing, we can help give you information for where you can get tested.
If you are considering an abortion, we would strongly encourage you to read through these questions to empower yourself to make an informed decision. A pregnancy is a life-altering experience, no matter how you choose to respond. Please take the time to inform yourself and make a decision based on facts and truth, rather than on fear in the moment.
(Information adapted from Pregnancy Decision Line website. Full list of sources and references available at http://pregnancydecisionline.org/abortion-safety-checklist/)
Our Earn While You Learn classes cover a variety of topics. From prenatal education to parenting skills, Earn While You Learn is designed to progress with you through your pregnancy.
Did you know that you begin to bond with your baby before it is even born?
Ever wondered how your baby is developing during different stages of your pregnancy?
Do you have any questions or concerns about the labor and delivery process?
Have you ever had basic training in infant CPR?
What about parenting? Do you feel equipped with skills to handle a strong-willed child?
If any of these questions resonated with you, please check out our Earn While You Learn classes! Having a baby, whether it's your first or your seventh, is a life-changing experience. Our hope is to equip and empower you during your pregnancy so that you have a full set of newly-sharpened skills in your 'parenting toolbox.'
In addition to the skills you'll learn, you can also earn points each class to redeem for items your baby will need. Our clients can earn points toward a new car seat, diapers, baby wipes, baby clothes, bottles, pacifiers, baby shampoo, and baby lotion. All of these items are new and free to our clients who redeem their Earn While You Learn points!
Having a baby is a life-changing experience. Our classes can help equip you and prepare you for this new season. We want to help take the uncertainty and stress out of this pregnancy, and to come alongside you and support you every step of the way! In future posts, we'll continue to explore different class topics and some of the introductory information in our curriculum. Stay tuned!
When women come to our clinic for a pregnancy test, our nurses will often recommend that they consider having a free ultrasound here as well.
But why do ultrasounds matter?
Ultrasounds are important because they give our nurses and clients a better understanding of the situation. It is possible to have a positive pregnancy test, and not have a viable pregnancy. Pregnancy tests can only indicate the presence of the HCG hormone in the urine, but they cannot give any more information than that. An ultrasound can help confirm the pregnancy by determining whether or not it is viable (i.e., in the uterus with a heartbeat present).
Knowing whether or not the pregnancy is viable is crucial information to have when making a decision about your pregnancy.
Our clinic offers free and confidential limited obstetrical ultrasounds. A limited obstetrical ultrasound can provide information to help determine if the pregnancy is in the uterus, if there is a heartbeat, and what the estimated gestational age is.
*It's important to know that our ultrasounds cannot and should not replace regular prenatal care with your OB/GYN doctor.
Interested in an ultrasound? Call our clinic to schedule a consultation with one of our nurses! Our offices are open 8am-4pm Monday - Thursday, and we can be reached at 307-745-3444.
Nutrition is one of the biggest factors for overall personal health. During pregnancy, a nutrient-rich diet helps encourage healthy baby development. Your baby only gets the nutrients that you consume, so good nutrition is more important than ever during your pregnancy. Consider the questions below...
WHAT NUTRIENTS DO I NEED?
Different stages of your baby's development will be fueled by different nutrients. Understanding which foods contain specific nutrients can help you make choices about what to eat throughout your pregnancy.
WHAT FOODS SHOULD I AVOID?
Certain foods can trigger symptoms such as morning sickness or nausea. Other foods can put you and your baby at risk for diseases or negatively affect development during pregnancy. Knowing what foods to avoid is crucial for you and your baby.
WHY ORGANIC IS IMPORTANT
Fruits and vegetables are a great source of the nutrients your body needs to help your baby develop during your pregnancy. But the source of the fruits and vegetables can be equally as important as the foods themselves. Pesticides, hormones, and additives during growth can have effects on you and your baby.
WHY HYDRATION IS KEY
Adequate hydration is a key component of a healthy diet. Without enough water, your body struggles to process all of the good nutrients you're trying to feed it. The average adult needs between 2-4 liters of water each day. Now that you're drinking water for two, your water intake should increase and change as your baby grows.
Want more information? Come learn more about healthy nutrition in one of our Earn While You Learn classes, and talk with one of our instructors about how you can use nutrition as a key part of your baby's development!
Heart to Heart
We are a Christian, non-profit counseling and medical pregnancy resource center that is committed to providing excellent care.